You got to make friends with yourself and then you got to make friends with your wife. Make friends. All right. It's like, she says, why did you -- OK, you win. No battles. No nothing.

　　记者在采访美国国务卿鲍威尔的时候，问其怎样处理好与太太的关系的时候，他说到：

　　NO fight. That's the biggest waste of time in the world to fight with your wife. Why? For what reason?