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20个方法让你摆脱坏习惯

http://www.sina.com.cn 2009年04月01日 15:06   沪江英语

   20个方法让你摆脱坏习惯

  Tricks to Nuke a Bad Habit

  Are you letting bad habits rule yourlife? I started learning how to change habits a few years ago. Sincethen I've switched to a vegandiet, began exercising every day, startedwriting new articles every day, began waking up earlier and trying somewacky experiments to improve my life。

  你的生活正在被坏习惯不断地侵蚀?我从几年前开始改变我的习惯,现在我已经养成以素食为主的用餐、每天锻炼身体、每天写新文章、早起等等好习惯,并且还不断尝试着新习惯来进一步提高我的生活。

  Here are some ideas I’ve found useful:

  这里是一些方法,我觉得可以非常有用的帮助你摆脱坏习惯:

  1.Commit for a Month. Thirty days is all you need to make a habit changepermanent. Less time than that and the new alternative might not behardwired into your brain. More time and any failures to last areusually a failure of strategy, not duration。

  1。坚持一个月。30天已经足够让你培养一个永久不变的好习惯了。时间太短则不能根植到你的大脑内,形成长久的习惯。若坚持时间很长但仍然失败往往是由于失败的策略,因为这时候时间的长短并不再是决定性因素。

  2.Replace What You Lose. Your habits fulfill needs. When you suddenlycause a change, you may inadvertently cut them out. Before you make achange, write down all the benefits you currently get from your badhabit and make sure they are retained going into the new habit。

  2。补偿你丧失的。无论习惯的好坏,你的每一个习惯都是迎合需求的。如果你突然改变其中的一个坏习惯,你便会丧失以前一些坏习惯所带来的好处。所以在开始新习惯前,写下现在的坏习惯中对你有好处的地方,在培养新习惯时就尝试把这些好处保留下来,融入新的好习惯中。

  3.Start Small. Changing habits isn't a matter of willpower, but patienceand strategy. Don't expect to overhaul your diet, exercise or thinkingpatterns in a day. Tackle one habit at a time。

  3。从小处着手。改变一个习惯与意志力并没有重要的联系,相反耐心和策略却非常重要。不要妄想在一天内改善你的饮食习惯、锻炼方式或者思考模式。你需要一步一步来,从小处着手,每次一个好习惯。

  4.Know the Benefits. Get clear in your mind what the benefits are ofmaking a change. If making a change rationally seems good but itdoesn't feel good, it won't stick. Emotions have more power than manyof us realize。

  4。了解好习惯的优点。让自己清楚的了解到新习惯改变会带来的好处和优点。有理性地培养新习惯听起来不错,但是感觉上却有些别扭。因为去培养习惯的感情远远比理性的强迫更有动力。

  5.Write it Down. Winston Churchill once said, “Plans are useless,planning is invaluable。”Writing out any commitments you make will giveyou clarity both to what you desire and how you intend to do it。

  5。把习惯写下来。邱吉尔说过,”纸上谈兵是没用的,只有开始行动才有用。”把实行的计划,会得到的好处和希望达到的目标统统写下来。

  6.Swish.A technique from NLP. Visualize yourself performing the bad habit. Nextvisualize yourself pushing aside the bad habit and performing analternative. Finally, end that sequence with an image of yourself in ahighly positive state. See yourself picking up the cigarette, seeyourself putting it down and snapping your fingers, finally visualizeyourself running and breathing free. Do it a few times until youautomatically go through the pattern before executing the old habit。

  6.Swish。一个NLP的方法。形象地表演你现有的坏习惯,接着又形象地表现当你有好习惯后的样子,把它们录下来。相互对比一下,你就会进入一个非常积极的状态。慢慢地习惯开始培养,当你拿起香烟时,会把立刻把它扔掉,然后又开始天天锻炼身体。重复表演几次,直到你的积极状态一直都在保持,并且轻松地踢掉你的坏习惯后。

  7. Tell a Friend. Get some leverageon yourself. Tell a friend your plan so you will be more likely to commit to the change。

  7。告诉一个朋友。使你产生一些压力。把你的计划告诉一个朋友,那么你更可能去改变坏习惯。

  8.Make it an Experiment. Be a scientist. Just try the new habit to seewhat it will be like, rather than a great emotional struggle. This willhelp keep you focused on conditioning the trial and allow you to viewresults with less bias。

  8。把它当作一个试验。像一位科学家一样,把培养习惯当作一次尝试,而非一个心理斗争。这将有助于集中对待,随时调整和正确对待结果。

  9.If at First You Don't Succee... Most big changes aren't going to happenthe first time. It took me three attempts before I finally stuck onwith exercising regularly. Now I love it. Don't be too hard on yourselfif you fail the first time; just tweak your approach and go again。

  9。如果第一次失败了。大部分伟大的改变都不会一次成功的。我尝试了三次才成功地培养起坚持有规律锻炼的习惯。不要对自己要求太高了,第一次失败了,调整一下,再试一次。

  10.Get Out of Hazard Zones. Get yourself out of situations that cantrigger your old habit. Remove junk food from your house. Don't go toplaces where you might break your budget. This isn't always possible,but do your best to avoid temptation。

  10。远离危险区。远离那些可能再次触发你旧习惯的地方。像把垃圾食品从冰箱里清出去;不要去让你会产生冲动性消费的地方。虽然这一条未必总是能避免的,但是尽量尝试避免这些充满诱惑的危险区。

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