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　　Woman who haven’t fallen in love beforegraduation

　　大学毕业前还没谈过恋爱的女人

　　Here "love" refers to interaction more than three months ratherthan a very short period of the lightning romance. Also it doesn’tmean a single party Love. Because there is no love experience, theskills with the opposite sex are lacked. On the other hand, the　degree of understanding of the opposite sex is also very low。

　　这里所说的“恋爱”是指男女双方超过三个月以上的交往，而非极短时间内开始并结束的闪电恋情，当然也不是指单相思。因为没有恋爱经验，故而缺乏跟异性交往的技巧。同时，这类女人对异性的了解度也相当低。

　　Perfectionism woman

　　完美主义的女人

　　Everything, including love, life are inperfect art. Women whopursue a perfect life are often very unhappy, because they intendto see an imperfect place。

　　生活里的每样事物，包括爱情在内，其实都是残缺的艺术。追求完美的女人往往生活得很不快乐，因为她们总能够看到不完美的地方。

　　Women who always think that they have suffered a lot。

　　总以为自己已经历尽沧桑的女人

　　A woman’s experience could be turbulent, but the woman’s state ofmind absolutely must be simple。

　　女人的经历可以沧桑，但女人的心态绝对要保有纯真。

　　"Obedient" daughters

　　“听话”的乖女儿

　　The more obedient daughters are, the more often there is no perfectlife, especially the marital problems. The more the parents involvein the children , the greater the chances of unhappiness are。

　　越是听话的女儿，往往越没有完满的人生，尤其是婚姻问题。父母参与越多，下一代不幸福的几率越大。

　　Seeing love as food

　　把爱情当粮食的女人

　　Marriage isn’t love but the combination of other conditions. Thoughit’s sharp, it’s true。

　　婚姻不单单意味着爱情，它是各种条件加减乘除后的产物。这话听起来挺薄情，但事实如此。