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如何看透他是否对你真心

　　　　为什么有的男人总喜欢处处留情，以伤害他人的感情来收场？总结这类人，他们是喜欢追求女人的快感！如果你想知道你的约会对象是不是这种人，以便在受伤前尽早脱身，你需要知道以下这些事情：

　　　1. He'll shamelessly flirt with other women in front ofyou.

　　      在你面前毫不避讳地跟别的女人调情

　　　　Players are often always thinking about where the next one iscoming from. One of the symptoms of this is that he might blatantlyflirt with other women right under your nose。

　　　　I'm not saying you have to be paranoid about every girl hetalks to, but watch out for him exchanging lots of numbers, ormaking inappropriate physical contact with every girl who comesover。

　　　2. He openly talks about other women in your presence。

　　     当着你的面谈论其他女人

　　　　Some players will be completely untactful about showing (orevenoutright telling you!) about their attraction for other women.Any guy who talks about other women being "hot" in your presence iseither trying to make you jealous, or it's a clear indication thathe's not particularly worried about your feelings (another sign ofa player)。

　　　3. He's uncurious about you as a person。

　　    他并不在乎你的为人

　　　　Players aren't usually bothered about you past superficialcharacteristics. Usually a "player" type will want you because he'ssexually attracted but he doesn't really want to ask questions thatwill help him know you better as a person。

　　　4. He won't go out of his way to plan anything special。

　　    他不会为你准备任何特别的惊喜，因为嫌麻烦

　　　　Players are usually seeing a few women at one time, whichoften means they can't be bothered to devote a lot of energy to anyone of them. A player will often do what's convenient for him. It'sunlikely he's going to surprise you with tickets to that playyou've been dying to see, or make any romantic gestures。

　　　5. He doesn't want to get involved in your life。

　　    他不想融入你的圈子

　　　　Players want casual relationships. That means they get panicat the idea of meeting parents, or getting involved with yourfriends,or any activity which makes him feel like he's in a couple。

　　　　Guys who want something serious with you will be interested inbecoming a bigger part of your life. On the other hand, players arealways planning their exit. They never want too much emotionalattachment, because they're scared of feeling guilty when they moveon to someone else。

　　　　Watch out for these sure signs and you'll have no problemsspotting the players early on!

　　　　So by now you should understand exactly what type of guys areplayers and who you need to avoid if you want a chance atdeveloping some kind of relationship. Players don't care about yourfeelings, they just care for themselves, so it's really not worthyour time to try and change them - because they won't change!