Beloved 心爱的人(A person who is loved very much by someone)
Obstacle(s) 困难，阻碍(Equals to setback)
1. “I trust you”
There is nothing as nice as hearing someone tell you they trust you. This is a good way of letting your beloved know that you care. Men love to compete. They hate being losers. Tell him you trust him and know that he is strong enough to cope with all obstacles. It will only additionally motivate him to do his very best.
2. “I'm proud of you”
Acknowledge that your partner's accomplishments mean a lot to you. Whether those results are small or big, just tell your beloved that you are proud of him. Completing one's goals is a challenging task and we do need encouragement. All kinds of motivation additionally stimulate us to move forward. It costs nothing to say “I am proud of you” yet these words can turn the person's world positively upside down.
3. “I believe in you”
This is another sentence that should be said by you more often. It sounds inspiring and motivates like nothing else. This phrase is especially helpful when your partner doubts himself and needs some psychological support from you. Be the motivator and your beloved will surely succeed in achieving his goals and dreams. Those goals can be small. Or you might find them unimportant. They can sound surreal and too hard to achieve. In either case be the person who inspires and helps to move forward.
4. “Thank you”
Be thankful for what your partner does for you. Being grateful is very important. Let your significant other know that you appreciate his efforts. It does not really matter how small the thing is. The point is to notice all those things that are done to make you happy. Do not take anything for granted – there are too many people who do not have anyone to take care of them.
文章中一共出现了三组：Be thankful for something, be grateful for something and appreciate somebody’s efforts.
A) Gratitude: the feeling of being grateful
Phrases： Express or show your gratitude to someone
In gratitude for something
Eg: we would like to express our gratitude to everyone for their generous donations.
B) Be obliged to somebody
Eg: I am much obliged to you (Used to thank someone very politely)
请大家注意区别：Be/Feel obliged to do something，表示‘to have to do something because of a legal, professional or social rule.’有责任义务做某事
Eg: Members of parliament are obliged to declare all their financial interests.
Take somebody or something for granted
Definition：To expect that somebody or something will always be there when you need them or never think how important or useful they are. 表示：‘认为…理所当然’
Eg: One of the problems with relationships is that after a while you begin to take each other for granted
5. “You are handsome”
You might at first think that this kind of expression is too shallow and primitive. We don’t judge books by their cover, do we? Well, the truth is that we do pay attention to people’s appearance. Men need to know that they are desired. If you see that your man looks good, then why not tell him that he is attractive?
A) 最为常见的：You look good; attractive, handsome‘诶哟，不错哦~’
B) 升级版：You are gorgeous or amazing!
C) Local 版：You are a good catch! 你很迷人 & You are polished 你变帅了
6. “You are so talented”
Talents and skills are all our strengths. How good is he at cooking? Maybe your man loves gardening or taking pictures while travelling. Or, which is even more important, he is a professional who knows his job better than anyone else! No doubt there are plenty of activities he is good at – that's why you love that person. Acknowledge his talents and tell him that what he does makes you happy and means a lot to you.