¡¡¡¡First dates are nerve wracking. Just spending time with someone new creates tension, and on top of that you¡¯re trying to suss each other out and show your best. These eight tips will help eliminate some of that inevitable first-date awkwardness.

¡¡¡¡1. The first date is not the occasion to road test radical new runway looks, a wild new hair color, or a powerful aftershave. Wear something that makes you feel comfortable and attractive. You want to focus on your date, not those uncomfortable new 5-inch heels. Avoid strong perfumes, plunging necklines, and loud t-shirts.2. Go to the bank BEFORE your date. Make sure you have enough cash to cover your expenses. If your date is treating you (and never assume this), bring enough cash to get home on your own.

¡¡¡¡3. Be prompt. Arriving late at parties may seem cool, but arriving late for a date is just plain rude.4. Ask your date what he or she would like to do, but also make sure you've done some research and have a few fun suggestions.5. If you don't know your date's food preferences, choose a restaurant with a varied menu that includes healthy and vegetarian options.6. Avoid lengthy diatribes about former relationships. This is a date, not a therapy session.7. Pay attention to body language. If, during the evening, she edges closer and touches you frequently, she may be asking for a kiss. But if she starts yawning and talks about her early morning wakeup call, it's time to wrap it up. Whatever the body language, it¡¯s probably best to play it slow at first.8. Don't say "I'll call you" unless you mean it.