爱情保鲜的27个法宝：15-27

　　15. Know his or her needs--what good is a spouse if he/she does not know the needs of their significant others? This should be your primary concern!

　　知道对方的需求——如果不知道另一半的需要，那还算什么好伴侣？这一点是首先需要留心的。

　　16. Compliment twice a day--everyone likes to hear something nice as a compliment; so give them that when it is due.

　　每天互相恭维两次——人人都爱听恭维话，所以在适当的时候说些好话。

　　17. Call during the day--but don't over do it and be obsessed with calling him/her. Give them their space but also show them that you think of them by a 2-minutes phone call saying "how are you doing?"

　　打通电话——不要总是给对方打电话。给他们一些空间的同时，打个简短的问候电话，让他们了解你的惦念。

　　18. Cuddle--yes; intimacy is very important and reflects love and deep feelings.

　　拥抱——是的，亲昵的行为可以传达爱意，增进情感。

　　19. Show respect--showing respect is more important than showing love.

　　尊重对方——显示你的尊重比表达爱意更加重要。

　　20. Welcome the other person home--show enthusiasm when they come home and greet them; this means that you are happy because they are home now and that you were waiting for them!

　　欢迎另一半回家——热情地欢迎你的伴侣回家。让他们感受到你的期盼和你的快乐。

　　21. Celebrate birthdays in a big way--this does not mean a big party; just show them you care about their personal occasions.

　　隆重庆生——并不是说你要为对方的生日大操大办，而是说你要传递出你很重视这个特别日子的信息。

　　22. Forgive--from the heart and not only in words.

　　宽恕——自心底而不是嘴上说声原谅。

　　23. Set up a romantic getaway--this sounds like fun every once in a while; no harm in that!

　　策划一次浪漫出游——时不时搞一次，其乐无穷，完全没有副作用！

　　24. Respond quickly to the other person's request--show them that you are doing this because you care for them the most.

　　快速响应对方的需求——这样做就是为了显示你有多么在意对方。

　　25. Treat each others' friends and relatives with courtesy--even if you don't like their family and/or friends, you treat them with respect and courtesy for the sake of your spouse; they deserve that much.

　　善待对方的朋友和亲属——即便你不喜欢伴侣的朋友和亲属，为了你的伴侣，你也要善待他们。

　　26. Admit when wrong--don't be too arrogant to say it.

　　有错的时候认错——不要自负到拒绝认错。

　　27. End the day with a hug--show closeness and again; intimacy.

　　用拥抱结束一天的生活——再次用亲昵的行为表达亲密的关系。

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