职场点拨：当你的求职遭拒怎么办

本文选自《谭小辉》的博客，点击查看博客原文

　　You're about to start the search for a new job, no doubt there are so many emotions swirling, fear top among them. Fear that you won't find a job as quickly as you'd like. Fear that it won't be the right job, or pay an adequate salary. Fear of the rejection letters, emails, calls you suspect will come.

　　如果你正要开始寻找一份新工作，无疑会受太多情绪困扰，最主要的就是担心。担心不能尽快找到工作，担心找到的工作不合适；或是薪水不合适。担心会收到信件、电子邮件和电话告知你被拒绝了。

　　The thing about fear is it can be immobilizing and incredibly unhelpful when you need to be at your most confident. So acknowledge it, yes, then put it aside to get to the work of networking and searching for the best jobs to apply for. You'll need to boost your confidence because one of those hovering fears is bound to come slamming down more than once during an aggressive job hunt -- the fear of rejection. Whether it comes in the form of an email, a call, a letter, or no response at all, it is all but impossible to escape rejection on the trail to employment. Know it's going to happen, and know that you can bounce back from each rejection by learning something from each experience.

　　担心会使你在最需要信心的时候感到无助和无法行动。所以，承认它的存在，然后放在一边，开始为了申请到最好的工作进行联络、搜索。你需要提升你的自信，我们提到过的那些令你担心的事，必定会有一件在你积极求职时不只一次地出现，那就是担心被拒绝。不论是通过电子邮件、电话、信件告知你，还是压根儿就渺无音讯，在求职过程中要不被拒绝是几乎不可能的。要知道这必然会发生，你也能从被拒的经验中学到东西然后卷土重来。