粑粑麻麻们都希望自己的娃是个小绅士或者小淑女，而好的形象都是从细节中体现出来滴。那么如何让宝贝从小养成懂礼貌的好习惯呢？小E挑选了几个生活中最常见的场景，看看都该注意点什么吧~
At Home
在家里
教育- Say “Please” when asking。
请求别人时说“请”。
- Say “Thank you” when receiving。
接受别人东西时说“谢谢”。
- Show respect for others and elders。
尊重别人，特别是年长的人。
- Let others finish before you speak。
等别人说完，再开口。
- Don‘t use bad language。
不说脏话。
- Ask permission before touching or taking things。
摸和拿别人的东西要先得到允许。
- Respect your own and other people‘s property。
尊重自己和别人的财产。
- Return things you have borrowed from others。
及时归还别人借给你的东西。
- Consider other people‘s privacy.People need their own space but also consider their possessions。
要尊重他人的隐私，因为每个人都需要有自己的空间。同时也要尊重他人的财产。
- Clean up after yourself。 Help your family out by keeping your room， bathroom， and general areas as tidy as possible。
吃完东西后自己清理。保持你自己的房间、浴室和其他区域干净整洁。
- Use polite phone protocol。
接打电话要有礼貌。
- Write “thank you” note。 This is nice when you receive gifts or presents from people。
记得写感谢留言。收到别人送的礼物时，这是很棒的做法。
At Mealtimes
用餐时间
吃饭- Be polite when someone serves you。
礼貌对待服务人员。
- Put away technology at mealtimes and conversations。
在用餐和谈话时远离电子产品。
- Listen and don‘t interrupt when people are speaking。
别人讲话时认真倾听，不要打断。
- Understand the silverware code！ Start with the cutlery on the outside and work your way in。
了解餐桌礼仪。使用餐具时，先从外侧的拿起。
- Use a napkin and try not make a mess at mealtimes。
学会用餐巾，用餐时保持清洁。
- Close your mouth when eating and chewing - nobody wants to see the contents of your mouth ！
咀嚼时闭上嘴——别让别人看见你嘴里的东西！
- Ask to be excused before leaving the table。
离开餐桌前要说“不好意思”。
- Don‘t forget to clean your plate and clean up after yourself。
拿到盘子里的东西要吃光，然后自己清理干净。
Having Guests In Your Home
家里有客人
迎接- Open the door for others and greet people with a smile。
为客人开门，然后微笑着问好。
- Shake hands and make eye contact when greeting someone。
和别人握手时，眼睛要看着对方。
- Offer to serve people who enter your home。
要主动为客人服务。
- Offer to take their coat or facilitate them with a seat。
主动去拿客人的外套，给他们安排好座位。
- Stand up when an elder enters a room。
比你年长的人进房间时，你要站起来。
- A hug or a kiss for a close relative or grandparent is often appropriate。
拥抱亲吻近亲或者爷爷奶奶会让他们很高兴的。
- Don‘t forget to introduce people in your home to visiting guests。
别忘了把家人好好介绍给客人。
Being A Guest
作客
帮助- Don‘t visit unless you have been invited or agreed that it’s convenient to do so。
如果不是对方邀请你、或是他们方便的时候，不要轻易拜访他人。
- Don‘t assume you can stay as long as you want - establish a time limit。
事先定个离开的时间——不要你想待多久就待多久。
- Permission is needed from both parents/guardians if you want to stay over。
如果你想在别人家里过夜，要得到双方父母或监护人的允许。
- Offer to help out and assist when you are a guest in someone else‘s home。
在别人家作客时，要主动帮忙。
- Clean up and tidy after yourself。 This is especially true if you are staying in someone‘s home for a few days。
吃完东西后自己清理。特别是当你在别人家叨扰好几天的时候，更要做好这一点。
- Don‘t forget to say “thank you” at the end of your stay。 It would also be nice at this point to reciprocate and invite the person to your home。
离开时一定要说“谢谢”。这时候邀请别人下次去你家做客，对方会很开心的。
General Manners Out And About
外出时的一般礼仪
外出- Say “excuse me” when bumping into someone。
不小心撞到别人，要说“抱歉”。
- Don‘t put your feet up on seats on public transport or indeed in anyone’s home。
乘坐公共交通工具或在别人家拜访时，不要把脚放在座位上。
- Put away your rubbish in a bin when out and about。 Don‘t expect someone else to clean up after you。
在外面不要乱丢垃圾，要把垃圾扔进垃圾箱。别想着让别人帮你清理。
- Offer your seat to an elderly or physically impaired person when in a public place or travelling on public transport。
在公共场所或乘坐公共交通工具时，要主动为老人或行动不便的人让座。
- Consider the noise level of your portable music when out and about - keep the noise level down。
在外时，调好随身听的音量——小点声。
- Be kind to the elderly and open the door for them。
多照顾老人，主动为他们开门。
本文转自公众号EF英孚亲子口袋英语
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