Nikky：(01-8-29) 15:05 thanks

　　Brian：(01-8-29) 15:06 think about the film "Sleepless in Seatle"(一部老掉牙的无聊的电影).

　　Nikky：(01-8-29) 15:07 yes i love that movie

　　Brian：(01-8-29) 15:08 in which that Hanks seems to have a lot of trouble recovering from the death of his wife and thinks that he will never fall in love again, but Megrin entered into his life , everything changed!

　　Brian：(01-8-29) 15:08 and the same thing is for you too

　　Nikky：(01-8-29) 15:10 i wish i could believe that, but it is movie, have u met someone yet?

　　Brian (01-8-29) 15:11 me? i did have a girlfriend in the school, but for a combination of factors(一系列原因) ,we just depart after graduation

　　Nikky：(01-8-29) 15:12 aww sorry to hear

　　Brian：(01-8-29) 15:13 but not like you, i did not dump her, neither did she do that to me.

　　Nikky：(01-8-29) 15:14 u both decided to part? that sounds fair

　　Brian：01-8-29 15:15 love never sounds fair or some sort of unfair , Getting married is very much like going to a restaurant with friends. You order what you want, then when you see what the other person has, you wish you had ordered that,(结婚就好比上餐馆，你已经点了菜，但看见别人点的菜后，你又想点那些菜) I just want to have as more chances as possible. (我只想给自己多一点点菜的机会而已)

　　Brian：(01-8-29) 15:16 be kidding, u know, for a short period of time after we depart , i have a broken heart like you but i managed to make things go on.

　　Nikky：(01-8-29) 15:17 yes，love does hurt，was she your 1st girl?

　　Brian：(01-8-29) 15:17 you bet. And I spend a lot of time---- I spend time with myself, I think a lot has happened to me since that, a lot of things have happened to me, but I try to keep my life in perspective(我努力使自己的生活变的乐观起来).

　　Nikky：(01-8-29) 15:17 u've done pretty well by it, yes i am going on i have no choice

　　Brian：(01-8-29) 15:18 you get to be a bit more passive about your attitude, not just cause you have no choice for you to go on!

　　Nikky：(01-8-29) 15:19 it was like i refused to sit at home and cry I had to go to work i had to go to school so no time

　　Brian：(01-8-29) 15:20 right, that's right. let your hands full (有事情做就会忘记伤痛):>

　　Brian：(01-8-29) 15:21 you are not pregnant after you gave it to him?

　　Nikky：(01-8-29) 15:22 no, but sometimes wish i were i was ready to marry this man and spend the rest of my life with him but i just got played for a fool.

　　Brian：(01-8-29) 15:25 maybe you are not played for a fool, maybe he loved you too, definitely when--- u know, u surely know what I mean ------when he made love to you, i think he love you but , for some reasons, he got to leave you

　　Nikky：(01-8-29) 15:27 maybe that is possible, i do believed he loved me just not enough and i feel like fool for opening my heart when i planed.

　　Brian：(01-8-29) 15:27 i think that on average, the western people have a more open mind on the sexual issues, but seems that's a serious misunderstanding on my part(看来我误解了)!

　　Nikky：(01-8-29) 15:28 how so explain?

　　Brian：(01-8-29) 15:28 you let me change the initial thought

　　Nikky：(01-8-29) 15:29 i mean i believe in love and i only was with him cause i thought he was the one but i made big mistake thought with my heart instead of my head.(Nikky说话有个特点不知道你发现了没有，不怎么喜欢打标点)

　　Brian：(01-8-29) 15:30 there is no possibility for him to come over back(他有可能再回到你的身边么)?

　　Brian的小结：谈到这的时候，仿佛Nikky就在我的身边跟我说话，真有一种快感。刚开始和她接触的时候，我还以为她和我一样无聊的只能在网上聊天呢，现在对她的想法和印象慢慢的偏转过来，这也是一个很有感情的女人，经过后来的接触才知道她原来还是一个纽约什么什么大学的经济系老师，应该不会骗我吧？这么远，也犯不着呀，对了，外国朋友一般不骗人，即使是质量很差很差的老外骗你的可能性也很小，但不幸的你如果真的遇到了某个老外骗你，我只能说"你真倒霉"。复习一下刚才的句子：

　　That's a serious misunderstanding on my part

　　Getting married is very much like going to a restaurant with friends. Yousgroupswhat you want, then when you see what the other person has, you wish you had ordered that.(很多结婚男人的又一个同感)