Brain的建议：谈完自己的情况，可以谈家庭，可以涉及小孩、爱人、父母等，这也是一个安全又普遍的问题。

　　Brian：(01-8-29) 14:34 thanks a lot! in China we call this in terms like "li jie wan sui" (中国有句俗语叫"理解万岁") means it's really good to find someone who can understand you , so thank you, from your list I know that you are born in 1973, so you must be 28 now and you said you love kids so much , do you have any kids? (如果对方有小孩，没准他会同你滔滔不绝的聊天，直到你感到厌烦。)

　　Nikky：(01-8-29) 14:35 no I do not have any children, but hope to have some one day.

　　Brian：(01-8-29) 14:36 so you got married , right? how is your husband doing

　　Nikky：(01-8-29) 14:37 no I am not married unfortunately :-(

　　Brian：(01-8-29) 14:37 oh, I want to know , in American, what is the average age for women to have their children, you know, in China, it's probably sort of 25-30

　　Nikky：(01-8-29) 14:38 here it varies(情况各有不同), so many younger ones have kids(很多人在很年轻时就有孩子了)

　　Brian：(01-8-29) 14:39 I am sorry, I had thought you have married, seems not acting your age，why , you have never met someone in your life to fall in love with? (从没有遇到你喜欢的人么)

　　Brian的小结：问问对方有没有男朋友，或者女朋友，绝对很有趣，说不定您们之间会在此基础上聊出一段异国情缘，也有一开始就抱着找女朋友的态度聊天的狂人，说不定很真能碰上一两个美国恐龙呢。

　　好句子：

　　I don't act my age (我与我的年龄不相称.比如看见一个小女孩，不点大，言谈举止却是个大人，这时候就可以说"she doesn't act her age!")