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让你切底摆脱坏习惯:模范作用

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  13. Add Role Models. Start spending more time with people who live the way you want to live. Join groups and find mentors who have already adapted the habits you want to take on. They can be invaluable in giving you the positive reinforcement and guidance you need.

  13.模范作用。与那些有着好习惯的人相处。参加学习小组,接受那些已经成功培养好习惯的朋友的指导。模范的影响会提供很多正确的方法及正面的推动力。

  14. Stay Consistent. Try to keep as many aspects of your habit in control when conditioning to make the associations stronger. For the first month don't just exercise a few times a week, but every day. Do things at the same time and in the same pattern to ensure your results stick.

  14.保持一致。尽量把培养习惯中所有的因素都考虑周全,使习惯培养的过程保持一致。比如培养坚持锻炼的习惯,便不能一个月内只锻炼几次,而要天天坚持。并且坚持保持在同样的时间,和同样的运动量。

  15. Keep it Simple Stupid! Habits should be one or two rules, not 20. If your plan looks like a User License Agreement from Microsoft, it's probably too long. Keep changes simple so they will be easier to adhere to.

  15.保持简单。建立习惯的要求只需要几条就可以了,保持简单,千万不要让你的要求像Microsoft的用户使用协议那么长(那也太长了吧~)。保持你的改变简单,从而更容易坚持。

  16. Remind Yourself. Put reminders of your habit around you. After spending a few years changing many habits, I've learned that one of the biggest ways I've failed is simply a poor memory. Forgetting to run a trial one day leads to two until your back where you started. Put up Post-It notes, affirmations or whatever you need to stay consistent.

  16.提醒自己。不断地提醒自己,防止自己忘记。在这几年的习惯培养中,我发自己最大的缺点便是健忘。因此常常忘记去坚持培养习惯,从而导致几天都没有去培养。所以保持一份习惯培养清单,或者使用其他可以提醒你的方法。

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