Brian: I told the other part inside that its not good to be over optimistic or over pessimistic,　get to control the feeling and attitude, since I grow up, an adult(我告诉内心有时候太乐观或者太悲观都不好，得去学着控制自己的感情和态度，我已经长大了，成人了)

　　Nikky: an involvement of your own responsibility.(这是你自己的责任)

　　Brian: yes, I got to be responsible for my own behavior , my own change and nobody will care about that, its my own choice.

　　Nikky: then what would u like to do as a job.(你到底喜欢干什么【注】用王朔“空中小姐”中的话说，少干活，多拿钱，不干活，也拿钱)

　　Brian: if I have known about that, I would not mix it up.(我要是知道了，也不会搞混了)

　　Nikky: well what's your job exactly like, make me think that u are in some concentrated camp.(那你现在的工作到底是什么样子的，给我感觉你好像在集中营一样)

　　Brian: I'm not meaning that, I like my job, the job itself is good, but…….

　　(我指的不是这个，我喜欢工作，我的工作本身也很好，但是……)

　　Nikky: so what u do, like today, what u did before u come home online talking with me, Brian.(你干什么了，比如今天，在你回家上线和我谈话之前你都做什么了)

　　Brian: have a meeting, with some people talk around the table on the things like the programs or the items, the marketing paper, documents for imports.(开会呀，和一些人围着一张桌子讨论项目，市场分析报告还有进口的一些商业文件等等)

　　Nikky: if u really don't like it, then find something for a change.

　　Brian: that's what I supposed to do.(这也是我想做的)

　　Nikky: but just wonder why didn't u tell me that the very first time we met on the net, u didn't tell me that on this.(在想为什么第一次见面的时候你不告诉我这些，你没有告诉我这些)

　　Brian: what u expect me to say to u, dear nikky, u met someone for just a few minutes and was told all of sudden that he hated his job, everyone online said that.(你期望我能说什么呢，亲爱的Nikky，你在网上刚刚认识一个人，然后他就突然告诉你他讨厌工作.每个网上的人都这么说)

　　Nikky: I don't know what to say to make u out of this.(我都不知道该说些什么才能让你摆脱这种想法)

　　Brian: no, nikky, u don't need to say anything, u are listening, that a great help enough!(不，Nikky，你什么也不用说，你在听我说呀，这已经是很大的帮助了,【注】u are great help！你帮了我好大的忙呀！高级奉承语)

　　Nikky: u will feel better tomorrow.

　　Brian: hope so, maybe the next day things will change, I need to change, don't play golf unless u like to play golf, u're not going to be successful.(我也希望明天会感觉好一点，也许明天事情会有变呢，我需要改变，不要去打高尔夫，除非你喜欢打高尔夫，要不你是不会一个成功的高尔夫球手的)

　　Nikky: it's true, don't fake it.(是呀，不要伪装自己！)

　　【Brain小结】Don't play golf unless u like to play golf, u're not going to be successful不要去打高尔夫，除非你喜欢打高尔夫，要不你是不会成为一个成功的高尔夫球手的。