N: how did your father handle it?

　　B: it was very difficult for my father, very difficult, for my father, u know, been the son of somebody for almost 50 years, and , it was devastating to him, u know, my father loves his father, even my grandfather didn’t know any words, any(我爷爷不识字)

　　N: he didn’t know any words?

　　B: my grandfather never been in school, spend his whole life in the countryside, and die in the countryside, that’s it, but he has huge intelligence(我爷爷从来没有上过学，生在农村，死在农村，但他很睿智).

　　N: I can see that from u, brian

　　B: what?

　　N: intelligence

　　B: J

　　N: it could be in the genes.【注】遗传的因素在起作用。your father did have it, and so do u now.

　　B: I am not the sort of man, but my brother is.

　　N: he was how much older?(他大你几岁【注】这句话是不是和中文的结构很相似？)

　　B: he was four years older. My brother is that much older than me that I wasn't really like -- it wasn't -- it was almost like being an only child.(我哥哥大我四岁，以至于我感觉到自己是个独生子)

　　N: u were brothers

　　B: we were definitely brothers, and friends

　　N: how explain

　　B: I confide in him, whenever I make any decisions, any big decisions, I need to talk to him and u know, a lot of cases show that he is always right , for me, a bit for the extreme, and I don’t want to regret for my decision, so he is my best friend.

　　(我向各个吐露我的想法，每当我做任何重大决定的时候，我总是先跟他商量，因为有太多的事情表明他总是对的，对我自己来讲，有点走极端，而我自己又不愿意后悔，所以他是我最好的朋友)

　　N: your only friend?

　　B: no, but he is close to me, he is very careful in the way he live in his life, I am not.(他对他的生活非常仔细，而我不是的)

　　N: more intense than a friend.【注】intense这个词几乎都有面熟的感觉，但总是很少用到它，表示强烈的，剧烈的，热情的，这句话指的是：你们兄弟关系比朋友更重要

　　B: it’s blood【注】血肉之情, You know. And I think brothers know things about each other that people -- other people-- you know, that other friends and parents don't know. So I think it's a relationship that can be incredibly powerful, u know?

　　N: yes, I know

　　B: and , for, in every family, brothers have roles, and u know, he played the good boy, and I was a rebel.(他从小家里是很乖的孩子，而我自己一直是个叛逆者)

　　N: it’s a very complicated relationship

　　B: yes, I think brothers are complicated relationships, but we are close, and we shared things even my girlfriend didn’t know.

　　N: some of the things that only your brother knew?

　　B: yes.

　　N: hmm

　　B: means what

　　N: :)