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http://www.sina.com.cn 2005/06/23 11:12 新浪教育 | ||||||||
Shall I believe him? 你攥着沉甸甸的材料,说得口干舌燥,目的就是要让VO相信你,VO很自然也会问自己,shall I believe him? Maybe, yes,那么,congratulations!可惜的是,更多的时候,VO会对自己说,not yet,there’s something weird。那么准备迎接更多的why的挑战吧。
–You want to be ***, why? –How if you can't find this position in China? –How if you can find a well-pay job in the US? –Why not stay in USA? –How if you can find a well-pay job in the US? –How can you convince me? 如果你跟VO说你要拿个Ph.D.回来到Tsinghua University做professor,做学科带头人,VO问How if you can't find this position in China,你可别告诉我那你就去公司做市场。你这么爽快的转了个180度,如此没有立场,让VO怎么能不据你。这时你要充满自信,用事实,用Tsinghua的招faculty的有利政策,你所学东东的巨大潜力,归国师公师傅师叔师兄师姐的example来论证,that’s impossible!当然,你觉得不该和VO这么顶着干,那好吧,拿出你的backup计划来。Tsinghua去不了,中科院怎么样,他们不正缺这方面的人吗?同样的方向,当然可能地位要差那么一点点,或者薪水有点距离,或者往上爬的时间要长一点点。Anyway,没问题,此处不留人,自有留人处,反正我牛,不怕没地去。反正就是要打消掉VO心中的疑虑。 |